Wednesday, December 19, 2012

So-- there's good news -- and there's bad news

Let's take the bad news first.

M and I are on a ross and rachel type break

We're talking -- as we always have
but with no expectation of a visit

He asked to think about this option

but has not responded.

so
I have made the decision for us

it's the only decision to make

and yes

I am sad.

but - there is no remedy where he will not budge

I will mourn this -- but I'll be honest -- being mad at him -- and that makes it easier.

So

for the good news....

the blog's about to get interesting again

stay tuned.

7 comments:

  1. oh Sweetie,

    men suck sometimes

    -sin

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  2. I am sorry sfp.

    His loss for sure if it doesn't work out, cause you are one super, smart, sexy, honest, thoughtful gal who deserves only the best in return and am glad you are not settling for anything less.

    Looking forward to many interesting posts for sure!!

    ~faithful

    PS- your Blog is doing that "not showing up thingy" again.

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  3. sin's right. Men suck sometimes. And let's face it...you've been a paragon of patience for 7 fucking months...(way more patient than me, to your credit AND detriment!)

    Frankly? He doesn't deserve you. You can and will find someone who will Dom you, nurture your submissive self...and with every step forward you will grow. (btw....growing sucks, too. But yanno...it's part of the deal.)

    If I was there I'd help you key his car, bash his rear-view mirrors, and tp his house. :)

    nilla

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  4. blergh
    So sorry, sweetie.

    (And I consider you interesting even without sexual escapades)

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  5. i'm looking forward to good times ahead - well, funny times anyhow. And interesting ones. Lots of adventures, ending with HAE...

    hugs,

    aisha

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  6. Aw, I'm so sorry for you, but I commend you for taking the right decision. It sucks, I know, but at some point you have to choose for yourself, and you did just that.
    Mourn your loss and move forward, find that lap to lie over.

    Hugs, Julia

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  7. @all -- Thank you guys -- I'm looking ahead to good times too!

    sfp

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