still have the house inspection and fire inspection -- but well on my way to being licensed!
and it went well
but it was a long day
and very emotional
so
I put something up on FB about being done
and someone posted "yay! -- I was so easy, right!" because she just did hers.
How much to I fucking hate when people tell me that things are "easy"
it implies that if it wasn't "easy" for you - -that you're defective in some way.
and
I sort of feel like I want to tell her to fuck off.
instead I said, "lol -- it's all relative"
because
I don't find it "easy" to talk about painful moments from my past -- my divorce, my infertility -- with a stranger.
no
not easy at all.
not difficult
but not easy either.
so
if you're an "it's easy" sort of person
cut that shit out.
it bugs the rest of us
Totally get that! Glad you got through this part, one step closer. :)
ReplyDeleteYep, that's annoying. What you had to do wasn't easy. Glad it's done.
ReplyDeletehug,
aisha
Thanks guys --
ReplyDelete"It's easy" is one of my pet peeves -- just like when people use "my bad" instead of "I'm sorry"
Just played myself the happy happy joy joy song again
lol
sfp
i saw that comment and was a bit ...aghast....
ReplyDeletehow is baring your inner self to a stranger "easy"?
it's intrusive and scary...like going to a gynecologist for the first time, and having them stare up at your pussy and wonder (to yourself)...are they gonna go "hmmmm..." and if that means you're normal or not...
or if they'll laugh and you'll want to close your legs around their head and suffocate the annoying bastard?
yeah.it's kinda like that, at least from my p.o.v.
nilla
sfp,
ReplyDeleteSo glad it went well and you're moving ahead to the next steps. There's nothing "easy" about what you're doing.
Very big hugs,
mouse