Weeding

Sometimes you have to weed some out

to make room for other things to grow

today I weeded out B

the FWB

because - well - you have to be my FRIEND to be a FWB.  If the only time you contact me is when you want to get together - then you're not really my friend.

We had a long text conversation about it today
followed by a long phone conversation

that ended with me telling him I was done

which I hate

I really do hate saying "no"

as for the tall hot neighbor FM -- I haven't really heard much from him
and I'm going to let him decide what's next

maybe nothing

because

last night - -after getting a pile of new contacts
I got one from someone I'm going to call the Cowboy

and Holy Cow -- is he something else

local
a dad
direct
Domly

and so far?  he has a lot of promise

too early to tell

but I like him

We've been emailing all day

and part way through the day he changed the ID on his account from THE ONE to YOUR SIR

nice touch
he should patent that move
it was awesome



I'm also talking to someone I'll call the Teacher -- who has some promise as well

but less fire

so I'll take a day or two to narrow it down.

B wanted to hook up (I declined)
TK wants to play -- I'm stalling
and my friend is still offering me that spanking

and

I'm thinking that I would rather just keep getting to know these two nice gentlemen -- and see where it goes

more soon