Tuesday, April 3, 2012

Responding (political post) -- Part 1

I thought the best way to answer the questions and comments in the pregnancy post -- would be to answer it more publicly as part of the blog.

If I'm honest -- my initial reaction was to be a bit pissed.
it's unusual for me to get anyone with a conservative bent who comments on my blog
either blog

and it's not really the place for it

afterall -- I'm an openly liberal writer of a kinky sex blog -- people don't get on their high horse here very often.

But I thought it would be best to address of the of the issues -- and it may take more than one post to cover it all -- bear with me.

Sqoodd wrote:
No way should the government be telling a private company that it will becovered in their policy. Birth control is already available at healthdepartments around this country. Besides, only one ever got pregnant usingabstinence in the entire history of humans. For us mere morals, it worksevery time it has been tried.Sqoodd
So -- Pt 1

No way should the government tell a private company what they will cover in their policy.

hmm -- really?

We tell companies what to pay for all the time.
We force companies to pay Social Security on your behalf  (not just what you pay) as well as a variety of taxes.
Many state governments require employers to purchase (or opt in) to workers compensation insurance.

Additionally -- companies and individuals are required to carry insurance on their cars
why do we do that?

it protects others.

so -- what happens when people don't have medical insurance

lots of things

1 -- they still get sick -- in fact -- they get sicker than people who carry insurance -- because they neglect preventative care.
2 -- they still get pregnant -- in fact -- the children that they have are sicker (and also don't have insurance) because of a lack of prenatal care
3 -- they still go to the doctor -- but they can't pay for it.  If they are eligible for public aid -- then the government (which means you and I) will pay for it.....but if they are not eligible for public aid -- then the hospital has to absorb that cost -- which raises the costs for the paying customers  -- guess who that is -- yup -- YOU and ME

and in reality -- NOT just you and me -- companies.

Companies then pay a higher rate of insurance due to increased costs -- and they also pay more because more and more companies are self insured.

you argue that companies should not have to pay for care that they disagree with.

what about HIV treatment?
should they have to pay for that?
aferall -- isn't AIDS God's just punishment for their dissolute lifestyle?
should we not just let them die before they pervert more people?

should they be able to dictate HIV treatment?
should they be able to force me to prove the reason why I need birth control to my employer (which AZ proposes) therefore violating my HIPAA rights to privacy? -- not to mention putting me at risk for discrimination (for which I am protected under GINA laws.

There are some things that we are all required to do to protect the community
to protect the greater good.

I believe we have a moral obligation to protect families
from unwanted pregnancies
from unnecessary poverty
from unwarranted stresses that increase domestic violence.

I believe in access to birth control
I believe in access to sex education
I believe in access to family planning up to and including abortion
I believe in supporting families under stress
I believe in protecting children

and I believe that the companies that benefit from our great society
that have grown prosperous
that have made the men and women who run them rich
have an obligation to protect that society

More on the rest of the statement tomorrow
and at some point -- there will be some more sex in my sex blog
10 more days of quarantine to go.

6 comments:

  1. Brilliant.

    You have covered the key arguements clearly; it's so easy to wave your hands and say "these Companies shouldn't be forced to XYZ..."

    The reality is that if the gv't didn't...there would still be rivers running different colors in paper mill towns like mine; there wouldn't be things like OSHA to protect workers from dangerous situations, there wouldn't be many protections from anything...because most businesses are in the business of making money.

    The Great Pyramids have given me great pause of late. It is true that they are marvels of a bygone era...but if a slave fell, crushed by the stones, another was brought forward to take his place. The people were *tools* ...to be used, used up, and discarded.

    I, for one, do not want to me a mere, replaceable, uncared-about cog in a corporate wheel. A tool.

    Do You?

    nilla

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  2. sfp,

    Apparently, you've had more than one conservative lurker on your blog. i am about as conservative as it gets (i was very nearly a Catholic nun, seriously), and enjoy your blog very much. i didn't want to start a firestorm by commenting on your political views so let the other posts just be. Online forums do not lend themselves to indepth discussion of any issues, let alone ones that are so polticially and personally charged. Suffice to say, we are both entitled to our own opinions, as diverse from each other as they are. That does not mean that neither viewpoint is valid.

    i prefer a Constitution that does not mandate that i pay for something my religion forbids me to pay for, whoever is the ultimate recipient. Others see contraception as the cure-all for all the world's problems. (not saying you do). Regardless, we all have to live and work together for what we truly believe will make this world a better place.

    Again, i love your blog. Couldn't pass this up, since your post seemed to intimate that conservative views on politics, religion and their intersection with modern life are somehow less valid than liberal ones.

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  3. Dear Anon

    I was about to go to sleep when I read you comment -- and wanted to respond promptly.

    I by no means have a problem with conservative politics....actually that's not true -- I have a huge problem with conservatism in the way it manifests itself today

    I would have no problem with religious conservatism -- if it was accompanied by Christian charity. However -- conservatism that limits choice -- without a view to the consequences of it (for example the burden on society of unwanted pregnancy) -- that does not protect the job rights of pregnant women -- that wants to cut support for poor families - -that does not seek to heal the sick, help the weary and the poor and provide people with education and the ability to better themselves

    no -- I do not consider those views to be valid.

    the tone of your note
    makes me feel that you are not one of those conservatives.
    and I thank you for the kind tone of your note and the nice words about my blog -- and welcome your views

    sfp

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  4. Dear Anon,

    Like Sfp, i appreciate that the tone of your comment is reasonable and kind.

    i agree with you ~ when you say:

    "i prefer a Constitution that does not mandate that i pay for something my religion forbids me to pay for, whoever is the ultimate recipient."

    i'm so with you. And based on my conscience, my religious beliefs, i wouldn't be paying for war. In fact, Catholicism has frequently taken a stand against particular wars. But the government don't give us any choice about where our tax dollars go.

    aisha

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  5. wow, what to comment on here? I believe in lots of the things you say you believe in SFP. I loved your comment about "openly liberal". Yeah, me too.

    And I believe in... well, funding, and education and access... Everything you said here. I think it's shocking and wrong that they are pulling funding.

    I guess I also think we have things to learn from each other. I like that you anonymous almost a nun commenter had things to say, I'm curious about what else she would say.

    And Aisha, my dear, I also believe in the concept of a just war. Sometimes things are too big, too important not to fight for. Just sayin.

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  6. sfp,

    Well you know mouse's view on this topic in particular. If the government can require insurance companies to provide services...like longer hospital stays after birth, reconstruction surgery for breast cancer...

    In today's job market one can't simply easily give up their paying job for another. Not all people that work for say a Catholic hospital chain, are by any means all Catholic. They hire people from all religions...another government mandate.

    Hugs,
    mouse

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