I don't get told what to do -- or not do -- very often
but when it comes to orgasms -- he's a bit bossy
which means no flying solo
no dress rehearsals
no stand ins
so -- if he's in the mood to play
to let me play
then I get to
and if not -- I don't
which doesn't always work for me
because the less sexual I am
the less sexual I become
and I'm not sure if asking him
and being told "no"
works for him
because he gets to say no -- and have his way
or
irritates him
because I should know better than to ask the question
inscrutable.
I think that's a pretty typical girl thing, the less sexual we are, the less sexual we become. I don't think that most guys really get that, cause that isn't the way they work.
ReplyDeleteAnd I bet he likes when you ask.
years ago i had an online "relationship" (I'm using that term VERY loosely) who, for some reason, decided orgasm denial for weeks on end was what I needed. What ended up happening was I didn't want to at all anymore, nor want him either, lol.
ReplyDeleteI would maybe ask him if asking him annoys him. And also tell him that you do notice that when you are less sexual, it affects you by making you even MORE less sexual. (if that makes sense, lol)
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Orgasm denial only works if it works for both of you. If it has you on the edge of your seat waiting for his approval.. if it has you thinking about your submission to him and how you want to please him. If its the opposite effect is that really what he wants? Does he want you to be less sexual? Does he want you not to ask? I don't think so......but only he can tell you what he as your Dom is thinking.
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There is a very fine line here. Always being told "yes" can be just as frustrating as being told "no" at the wrong time - where's the sense in that? So no wonder they sometimes get it wrong. But I agree, deny me for more than a few days and I'll stop wanting.
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