Friends and Lovers

Interesting to me that I spent last night chatting with a number of people online

all of them?

ex-lovers of a sort

Mr. C telling me of an upcoming trip and catching me up on life with his kiddo.  We've achieved a pen pal status -- I don't know when/if we could ever sit down and have a nice lunch -- without all the soggy sobbing.  But I can tell you that it was on the tip of my tongue to say that I think I found someone.  But I didn't.

I will at some point
just

not yet

I still want to see where this goes.

And L

remember L?  the Poly Guy? -- I can't remember if I've told you the whole story with L.  But L came out as transgendered not too long after/during the time we were exploring things.  It wasn't the cause of our ending whatever it was -- but it was the beginning of L becoming a great girlfriend.

Isn't life interesting.

She's back to reading my blog -- so everyone wave and say 'hello' to her -- she's starting her own blog about her journey at serial nonconformist check her out when you get the chance.

and Sandy

I had to have the "talk" with Sandy -- he knows about M -- always has.  And I had asked him to cool it on the flirting -- which he mostly had -- and I had to basically spank a bit and draw a hard line.

He's agreed.

Sandy and I had the magic -- but our timing was shit.  Another life my friend.

and in all of this?

A lovely chat with M. 

He was off to help a friend move -- but wanted to keep our phone date. 

He's been sending me some stories -- I don't have the right to republish them here -- but I'll talk about them a bit in the future posts -- as they are "shades of things to come" -- and some are startling -- and some are just plain fucking hot.

M is good name for him

Mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm