We had a bit of a rough patch on Sunday
M was out of sorts
hurting
and a bit distracted and frustrated
it was hard for me to not feel like it was about us
but it wasn't
Someone M used to know
decided to start posting info about him
on his company's fb page
she started off being vague
but is now threatening him
much more directly
I have to be honest
when he told me about this
I thought
he's not being truthful about how long ago this relationship happened
that perhaps he's been shopping around more recently
and got burned
but
seriously
this man doesn't have enough time to juggle
work
ex
daughter
and me
and another girl
particularly since he's always around for me
I feel so bad for him
he feels like he brought it on himself
that he took chances
and how he's paying for it.
but what did he do that was so bad?
he trusted someone
he shared himself with someone
he took a risk
will she tell all?
will they buy it?
will they care?
all I know
is that it's weighing heavily on my man
and I can't fix it.
Crap. Awful for him and for you because you care.
ReplyDeleteHopefully no one will care.
Hugs,
mouse
That sucks to no end! People need to mind their own business
ReplyDeleteThats bloody awful, i sincerely hope it all turns out ok.
ReplyDeletetori
Can he speak to his IT people and have her blocked? Whatever line of work he's in, personal attacks are surely not appropriate for a professional page?
ReplyDeleteThinking of you, anyway - I hope it gets resolved as quickly and painlessly as possible.
Jx
Oh that sucks. It must be so frustrating. I think what J says above might be a good solution.
ReplyDelete-sin
I wish he had "IT people" -- but they're a wee little company
ReplyDeleteso far
no action on her part
could it be that she's threatened to napalm him
but then decided when he called her on it that she couldn't do it?
that's the problem with going for the big threat
you have to be willing to do it
and not everyone has the stones
stay tuned.
sfp
That does suck for him. But - good for you for recognizing that it wasn't you and it wasn't him after another girl - good for you for being able to be what he needed.
ReplyDeleteoh thank you gg --
ReplyDeletesometimes that's the hardest thing -- realizing that not everything is about me
lol
just most things
sfp
O, wow.
ReplyDeleteThat's really tough.
sending you both positive energy...
aisha
Wow...just...people can be so awful, can't they? And it just shocks me when it happens. Happens like this. What joy does such cruelty bring to these kind of people? We're not talking sadism, Domination, or D/s lifestyle. We're talking disrespect, rudeness, uncaring, and unkindness.
ReplyDeleteKarma is slow to act sometimes. But I have to believe that she'll get hers in the end.
And gosh how that sucks for you and Him. After waiting so so so long to be together. Yes.
But.
You were there. For Him. When He really, really, really needed you.
That's about the most caring, most submissive, most wonderful thing you could give to Him.
Not the playday you imagined, I know. But you did good, sweetie. Really, really good.
Hugs,
nilla