Lasagna and Love

M and I have missed each other a lot in the past week

I've been stressed out
he's been busy

and then he was away visiting family this weekend
and they tend to use up every ounce of time when he's there
we text
but we don't talk
because by the time he's fee
I've been asleep for hours

We tried to have a date on Saturday night when he got home
phone date that is
and he sent me a text that he would be calling within the hour
once his little one fell asleep

but apparently woke up at 3am on the carpet -- where he had agreed to lie down for a minute while she as conking out

so last night
I asked him via text for a date

he agreed
and I asked if his girl might have an orgasm tonight

He said, "She will put in her plug at 9 and we'll see about the rest"

oh my

it's rare he gets phone-domly
mostly we chat
we talk
we support
we love
but he has little use for applying pain or (hmm -- how do we categorize it?)
if he's not there to enjoy it.

and 9 meant -- I would be by myself.

It was only 8 so I continued my online chat with Nilla

I made veggie lasagna with a friend yesterday
and was sharing the recipe with her

she didn't believe me that you can make it without cooking the noodles at at
seriously

you just add lots more sauce next to the noodles and the cook in the pan
sooo much easier.

Nilla reminded me that it was time to go plug up

and I did struggle with it
it's been a long time
since the plug made an appearance
and it takes me about 10 minutes to get it seated.

(no pun intended)

my body fights it so much
and I haven't quite learned the trick
to relax right away
and give in
my head does
but my ass is the independent sort.

I finally reported my success at 9:03 -- and was ordered (via text) to Duck that pussy, but do not cum.

I decided not to take that moment to make fun of his prudish iPhone
and to follow his directive

ducking away
and eventually
being ordered to cum

and then after I thought I was done
cum again

before I removed the plug

and awaited his call

we then caught up on our week
and this time -- I tucked him into bed exhausted

this morning -- as I analyze things
would I have preferred some phone sex -- to be with him on the phone?

yes --

but yes and no

because -- I'm the one who needed the control and the sex
I've needed it a lot this week
he has not
or
when he has
he's taken care of it on his own
which is is allowed
and I am not

and I really didn't want to waste any of our reconnect time
I needed to talk to my man
and hear his voice

we all get what we need
and I love that about us.