Tuesday, May 14, 2013

Small is good

Sometimes I lament that my blog is small.

I've been blogging a long time -- I have a few followers -- they wax and wane over the years.  I have a lot of "followers" -- but I doubt most of the read me any more -- but rather have me up there as a memory.

the topics have shifted greatly over the past few years (it's been nearly 3 for this blog and was a year 1/2 for the other blog) -- so it limits readership.

I have good friends here that I would miss mightily -- and as much as I sometimes think I'll stop blogging completely -- I never do

I'm drawn back again and again

today I was reading over at Nilla - and I had cause to be grateful for being small - as one of her commenters felt the need to be a bit critical -- essentially -- "My master would never be so mean to me, but I'm happy it floats your boat" sort of way

a complisult - (insult wrapped in a compliment)

and I thought about how seldom I have that here.

not because I'm in any way superior -- but because it's much more intimate over here.

I want to thank you all for being such great readers
nah

for being my friends and family

as I come to the end
or at least as I can see the end of this crazy adventure

and the beginning of the next adventure

I am heartily glad that you all come here to pat me on the back and encourage me.
and smile with me

and

sometimes shed a tear with me.

Thank you all.

sfp

PS -- that snarky girl on Nilla's blog can kiss my ass

13 comments:

  1. i missed the snarky girl on 'nilla's blog - i'll have to go check it out. Nice smack-down though...

    And i'm glad you're here.

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  2. lol - ouch.

    Is it still a smack down when that person will never come over here to read it or know it was about her?

    sfp

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    1. OH, no it was supposed to be a compliment! i know she'll never see it, and is likely not to recognize herself if she dd. Sorry, i should have been more clear.

      sofia

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  3. I love you.


    a snarkiment? a complisult? Lovely expressions!

    I barely read my comment today. I'm so behind I can almost see my own ass...sigh...i think i know who you mean, and she's def. a newbie. :)

    always nice to ook out the starters. (scared of a few bruises, but loves D/s)...

    nilla

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  4. Interesting blog from that individual with masters and a mistress, plus a way to donate via paypal towards her lingerie bill! I agree small is good and I for one am happy to remain low key.

    I love to visit to read about your ups and downs, always rooting for good things to happen and always pleased to read whats been happening.

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  5. I've been following you for a long time. I love that you share so much more about your life than D/s. I may rarely comment but it's also rare that your posts don't touch my heart in some way.

    hugs, squirrel

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  6. I am also one of those readers that doesn't comment too much here (if at all). I'd hate to see you go though.

    I am a little perplexed at why some ppl feel the need to criticise. I acknowledge we invite comment / connection however I don't know that some would be so quick to judge or criticise if they were face to face. The problem with the keyboard and anonymity.

    I had a recent and I thought scathing comment, a judgement from a commenters view. A man who apparently thought he knew me enough to understand my life story but not wise enough to understand that his cultural mores are not shared by me. He judged from his own world, and not mine. I found this just insulting though I chose not to answer the comment or indeed to remove it.

    Don't let the bastards get you down I say!

    L

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  7. snarky needs to learn how to spell (her blog is full of errors!)

    I am glad you share too- I have learned so much from you- and I thank you for that!

    ~faithful

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  8. I like squirrel love your blog and that you share more than D/s. your blog is real life, with all the ups and downs. You're easy to like, :)

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  9. Yup - what they all said. Me too!

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  10. You are the first one I read everyday right now(if you've posted). I don't know why, or what I'm looking for or what issues I want you to be writing on. I just want to know what you're doing, what you're posting on. I'm into it, into your life and your relationships and your family and the way you talk it all, balance it all. You make me laugh and cry and want to go for dinner and drinks and trash talk the the mean kids.

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