Also rans

I'm not one of those people who never speaks to you again if we decide not to date

so I end up with a lot of male friends that say hello from time to time

and of course - -some of them are Doms.

and there are 2 that I've played with from time to time that have been chatting me up for the past few weeks.

Dom A -- emailed me with an offer.  He wanted me to be his slave and proposed some limited categories - understanding that I have a very demanding life.  I did consider this offer -- I've known him for years and having someone local that I trust to play with

well

it sounded like a possibility

so I started asking some questions

which clearly pissed him off

because when we finally came down to the nitty gritty- he wanted 100% control.  I asked if I would be allowed autonomy over work, spirituality, family and adoption -- and he told me "no" - that a slave must trust her master's character to make the right choices.

blink
blink
blink

first off -- who ever said I wanted to be a slave?

and unless you plan to marry me and live with me 24/7 -- I don't see how you can make all my decisions for me

and what the hell are the "right" choices anyway?

and we parted ways
the usually way
he made one comment "no worries" and then signed off

what a tool

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Dom B is someone I played with a while back -- who wanted me to go meet him and his Dom/sub clients from out of town to play.

um

what?

No.

why would I do that?

I haven't had sex with YOU - I'm going to do it and let them watch?

nice try

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it does make one wonder if the attempt to be friends is really possible -- or are we really just putting each other on the back burner.

which isn't right or fair to anyone.

(more personal news soon - when there is more to tell)

sfp