Tuesday, August 9, 2011

Judgement

At times I wonder at the judgement of others

the choices they make

I had the opportunity yesterday to catch and correct a moment of bad judgement in one of my peers -- and it was a huge error in judgement.

huge

It involved the decision to call 911 or not

and  -- yes -- it will be a good "teaching moment" blah blah blah

and it will be hard to trust this persons judgement again

I often tell the managers who work for us that when you interact positively and with good judgement with associates and peers -- you earn credits

and when you need things
to communicate things that might be negative
or need them to do something they might not be happy about

you burn those credits up

If you have no credits
you cannot lead.

because no one will follow.

and this makes me think this morning about M
and the credits he's earned with me

so many credits

not just when we've been together
but every day
in messages
and

in unflagging support for my goals

Yesterday - he put before me an image of me
tied
arms apart
feet together
face down on the bed

to be alternately  fucked and beaten
until he has cum three times in my ass

and I sit wondering at the huge quantity of credits
he has earned to allow me to think

"yes"

"I trust him to do what he will - -because he will only do what he wants if it is good for us - and will not harm me"

because I trust his judgement

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9 comments:

  1. nillaAugust 9, 2011 at 10:16 AM

    nice analogy....sub-cred...*nodding*...and really...that is such, such , such a hawt picture.

    Makes me all shivery...

    nilla

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  2. AnonymousAugust 9, 2011 at 2:12 PM

    Yes. Credit. A Dom who gets angry when a sub doesn't trust, is one who doesn't get It. That he hasn't built cred. :/

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  3. sinAugust 9, 2011 at 5:07 PM

    Big Bad talks about credit. He gets it. I hadn't ever really thought abt it that way before him.

    Did the person call 911 when he shouldn't have or the other way round?

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  4. LeaAugust 9, 2011 at 5:26 PM

    I really like this idea of mental credits between people!

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  5. AnonymousAugust 9, 2011 at 7:55 PM

    I love that picture, and totally know what you mean about credit. Having to earn it up front. Too many Doms don't have a clue.

    And I'm curious about the 911 incident too. I think not calling when you should would be worse, but the other way around could be bad also....
    Enquiring minds want to know.

    aisha

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  6. strivingforpeaceAugust 9, 2011 at 7:56 PM

    oh -- failed to call when he should have

    grrr

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  7. AliAugust 10, 2011 at 8:51 PM

    i understand this so much. Trust... i've never had it like this before. And when you said that he will only do what he wants if it is good for both of you...yes..this is my Master to a T. He has even said this to me. :)

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  8. AliAugust 10, 2011 at 8:52 PM

    I didnt write that correctly...sigh... I have it with my Master, and that is what I meant by I have never had it this way, lol. ugh

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  9. strivingforpeaceAugust 10, 2011 at 8:55 PM

    lol -- I read it the right way -- I'm glad you have it too -- it's a nice place to be.

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