Mission Dompossible

Last night while Dompossible was on the plane  going home he wrote out the specs for the program.

God I love me a nerdy man
so sad

The goals
the constraints of the project
etc etc

the goal is to bring me in line with his style of play -- or find a compromise style of play that we both enjoy.

This will mean helping me to develop and grow
and the idea makes me feel all warm and happy inside.

One of our agreed upon constraints is no deception - and the need for both to have other relationships.

Neither of us want the other to be alone.

but we're seeking the balance between -- "I don't want you to lie to me" and "I don't want to really think too much about other girls you're fucking"

I think it's important that while I'm not at the place that he is at D/s wise that he get his Dom on with someone who is.

and if he finds his happily ever after with her -- so be it.

I do not plan to move
neither does he
and

we will either catch fire and burn hotly
or
fizzle out

and having a session with someone else isn't going to change that.

In the meantime -- I fully expect a list of success criteria coming in some future email :)

In the meantime

I'm going to enjoy myself
and start thinking of ways in which we can start the reprogramming of my wiring

and right this very second
stop typing and go change a baby.